School is finally out for me

Daaaaammm has it been since January that I blogged. It has. Wow ..what a lousey blogger I am. Anyhow updates, Hubby and I are managing along. Its not the best but it isn't the worst. I have come to the conclusion that no one stays in love the way they were back in the beginning. I guess that is why people bring other people in the relationship. To get what they are not getting at home. I guess that is why I have my friends and Jerry. Yep if cheating was talking to each other on the phone a couple of times a week well then we would be. Jerry was the high school jock I had in my health class that I used to sit in front of and turn and drool over. He never really paid any attention to me so I thought. Then one day he asked me to GradNite at Disneyland. He was a senior..I was a junior. We had one bad kiss and then I never saw or heard from him again. Anyhow fast foward 30 years. I was hanging out at classmates and sent him a note. Damn its been over a year and we are still talking. Talking about what? Crappy marriages, crappy kids, crappy medical situations, crappy jobs or the crappy days we have at them. I am proud to say he is a Captain in the Fire Department. Its fun talking to him and we both realize we made better friends than if we had seriously dated in high school. I will see him again one day and he has been a good listener and a shoulder to cry on for me. I think I have too. So I guess you get from others when you are not getting it from the one you want. Anyhow what else? Still dealing with my job. Stressful. I want to walk away but its the money that is my ball and chain. I guess that is why I stress at school for to get a better job at my pay or better. We are buying a new house. I love it. Its big and roomy and it inspires me to quilt again. Closing should be July 3rd. I cant wait. The kids are good and summer is approching fast. They are going to the YMCA all day. Its expensive but I dont care. They will be outta my hair. After working all night when everyone is asleep ..it is hard to be awake in the days hours dealing with kids. So I will not be a bad blogger now that I have a little more time. I am back to working out and I may post a lot about that. Instead of the freshman 15 lb ..I got the sophmore 30lbs. So the goal is to get physically stronger and fitter than ever before. Goals ..I have lots.