I am so done!!!!

G finally came and got his clothes and then he tried to turn on the pity act. I asked him what the story is with him and his dad. He tells me that his dad told him he has to find a job ( Yeah ... that is exactly what I have been telling him from day one). So then G tells me " I guess I will be applying at Terminex" I tell him what happened at the Pearl Harbor job? He says that they hired someone else. Another lie. HE told me he was hired already. Anyhow I get into the shower because not only did he come over at 10:00 pm at night to pick up his clothes but I was too tired to let his bullshit bring me down. I figured he would be asking me for money anyhow and I just didnt want to be put in that position so I went in the shower. Anyhow he knocks on the door and tells me he is going to leave. "Alright call me later" I say and that was that. No thank you to my husband or me. W said he left like he was irritated. Whatever. The next day I get a call from the ex asking me if I know anything about G having an interview that day because he was suppose to help the ex fixing the boat. The ex tells me that G cant live with him and that he has two big bags there that I have to bring back to my house. I say nope I am not bringing nothing back to my house..they are G's and he can figure out how to deal with his own shit. The ex tried to pressure me into taking G back by saying he can only stay with him a few days. I just told him I have been doing his job for the last 16 years. He needs to do it now. I am done. I have been divorced from this guy that long and he is trying to guilt me into doing crap I am so tired of doing. Yes I feel like shit because I wanted and expected more from my son. But then he should want and expect more from himself and he wouldnt be in this situation if he just did the right things. The right things were like go to class, do well in class, go to football practice and abide by the rules of his scholarship. This would have been his junior year at USC. HE will never grow up if I keep on bailing him out. Now W's daughter is calling and calling him. He thinks she is going to ask him if she can stay here with her kid. Nope I want no one else living with us but the three youngest we have here. Its their turn to have us. The others just want a free ride and I just cant do that anymore. I am done.