To throw away or not

Today I was in a tizzy. I started to clean up and went to my 6 year old sons room. In his closet was G's military uniforms. My husband has called him several times in the past weeks to come and pick them up. He has decided not to. So the end result was they were going into the trash. I mean these are 3 pairs of fatigues and 1 dress uniform with medels on them and his name. As I was taking this this stuff out ofo the closet I was getting madder and madder at the stuff he has been doing. I called his recruiter and then called the base where he suppose to be stationed at to come and pick them up. No one has called me back. I am angry that I am like giving this kid a chance to pick them up. He has never paid for anything he has done. Then I come to find out he just took my 12 year old sons IPOD that I paid $300 for. G just stole it. No regret or remorse he has. He just took it. My 12 year old doesnt understand how his brother whom he has idolized could do this. I dont know why I am such a sap in just not throwing his shit out. I have everything in trash bags in my 6 year olds room. I know what I need to do. I know I need to erase this grown man from my heart like he has done me and his family. He is all over that MYSPACE so I know he is staying with someone that he will probably use like he does with everyone else . What an ass!!!!