Oct 12 The Laker Game and aftermath

So we went to the Laker game and had a great time. We spent a load of money but I dont care about that because it was for my husbands birthday anyhow and as long as the kids and he enjoyed themselves that what really mattered. Anyhow then we come home and there is all kinds of phone calls from my husbands family. His sister, his daughter, his exwife. Anyhow his asshole 17 year son apparently got mobbed at school and he has a hole in his mouth and a hole in his head and they are checking on his kidneys and so on and so on. Well I believe nothing when it comes to this kid. That is why I have a MYSPACE account. You know parents who read this ..you can learn a great deal about your children from that rubbish. Trust them .. you say. Well I did and where did it get me? It got me lied to. It got my husbands job almost lost. It almost destroyed my marriage, our family ..but most of all it destroyed the trust I will ever have for my stepson because he is a habitual liar and drug user. If they are using they are lying. There is no two ways around it. Anyhow back to the original drama. So I go on this myspace and find out he knew the kid he fought with ...its not a mob he got mobbed by and didnt know. And one of his friends filmed it. Again he has this family believing all his lies. I will not. If my husband chooses too that is his problem ..but I will not. As of this point I want nothing more to do with this kid because he doesnt think of nothing about his family. He would let us burn in hell first before he would change. Drug treatment is not an option because he doesnt think he has a problem. As long as he is in denile he will never help himself. He will be no better than the drug user on the street selling to children as far as I am concerned. I will not have drugs in my life or in my house. He is at an age to make decisions for himself. He has the world before him and he has chosen to lie to the people who love him. I will turn my back on him because I will not have him lie to me anymore or steal from me. The $200 he took from my wallet already was a pass...NO MORE...NEVER AGAIN. My own blood children never did that to me ..what makes him think I would allow it from him. Anyhow I am choosing to go and take my children on a trip for a couple of weeks to Disneyland in California where I grew up. Yes they will miss school for a spell but they will have a sane mommy who will be able to handle things better than I have been. I need to get away from my husband to let him figure what he wants from all this. I can no longer be a part of this crazyness his life has become because of his obligation to his children from his first marriage and his family. I will miss him but so what.. That is life I suppose.