Getting along

Well today I am manuvering better. I went to my sons baseball game yesterday. I was drained but I felt I just needed to be there to show support to him. It was our day to bring snack. We went and got like 6 pizzas from Sams club. That made it so much easier. One of the other parents from my sons baseball team is a attorney. Its the automobile accident kind. We had a talk about what happened to me. He suggested I call up his friend who is a malpractice attorney. I am torn. I feel I have a good doctor but I think he let the ball drop with this surgery. Yes I knew there were risk but I was expecting something like dying or needing a blood transfusion. I am not out to take anything from anyone..especially someone who worked as hard as surgeons have to get what they have. I just dont want my doctor to back peddle like he is doing. I want him to talk to me like he did before. I want real answers when I have questions.Anyhow I havent decided yet at what I am going to do. I have an appointment with him tomorrw. I hope its a good appointment and he tells me more about what happened during surgery. I did call my work comp attorney to straighten out the crap that happened when I was in the hospital last week for my ovarian surgery. Now I have to go and see my orthopod to make sure he is keeping me out of work for now. I soooo hate my job but it looks like I have to go back soon. I wish they were done with our house on the Big Island so that we can move already. I am so ready for a change. I am tired of all the bull crap here. Get this ..my husbands daughter asked him when I was in the hospital if he ..my husband could watch her 8 month old baby on his days off so she can work. I told him no way. When does it end with her. And where is the babys father?Why cant he watch his child. Well because he will be sleeping and playing basketball. Grow up I say. I told my husband no way. I have raised kids and still am for the last 23 years of my life. I dont want to raise grandchildren. That is why when my older kids were growing up I told them constantly dont have kids if you cant take care of them. My son is 20 and daughter is 22 and both are not married and dont have kids. His daughter was going to have this baby no matter what she was told prior. Well deal with it now. I told my husband that he wont be taking care of the kid ..I will and I dont plan on doing that. She needs to get a sitter like everyone else does. She lives with his parents and her mother doesnt work ..what about them? Anyhow that is about it. I am still in a lot of pain but the pain meds do help. My husband being at home has helped a great deal. He actually told me last night how much he missed me when I was in the hospital because now he sees how much I do. Nothing like them doing it and seeing it for themselves