What would you do????

I will be having surgery sometime next week or the earlier part of the following week. After the show down last night it was very quiet at our house. I left early this morning and went to visit a good girlfriend. We laughed and had a great time talking for about 2 hours. Our time was too short. I felt better about everything. Anyhow I called my sons cell phone. Something just told me to call and leave a message. I knew he wouldnt get the message because they are not allowed contraband such as cell phones with them. Anyhow I went to my doctors and he poked and proded and told me surgery was inevitable. I told him I was going to Missouri and if it could wait. He said yes but that he would give me lots of pain meds for the trip. Anyhow I get home and W started acting like nothing happened. He usually does. I just went about my business. Anyhow low and behold I get a call from the son on my cell phone. He is calling from his ...whispering very low. Apparently he somehow never turned in his phone to his drill sargent. He is in a bathroom stall having a conversation with me asking me if I could come to his ATI graduation instead in Gulfport Mississippi in March. I asked him why and he said he is not sure he is going to qualify now in his life training?? I ask him what is that? I guess they go out in the woods and see if they would be able to handle a real war situation. They need to pass everything in order to graduate. I asked him what... shooting ?? What? He said he wouldnt know for sure until this Friday and he would call me then. I told him booking flights on friday is kind of pushing the envelope for a Monday or Tuesday flight. He said he knew but would rather have us up there in March anyhow. He said he spoke to his drill sargent and he told him that graduation from ATI is more important??? Something is up and I smell it. Its smells like something is up with Miss North Carolina. I asked him if she was coming up there and if this what is was about. He denied it. I am confused. Well I think I put too much time into this whole Missouri thing. I am going to see if I can now push my surgery date up for now. I think thats the best thing to do. Sorry Val and Jaye ...maybe we will get together in March.