Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do

Well Walt has the flu. Because it was over three days they cant give him flu meds ..only antibiotics, cough medicine and pain meds for the aches. I just hope none of us get it. But I know one of us will.. it usually happens. I cancelled tomorrow seeing he is down and will just go to Wally's soccer game and come home after. Before I left today Walts mom called and was very cocky asking for Walt. I gave him the phone but started to get angry before I left. I just wish she didnt call the house. She has done and said some pretty ugly things to me and I just dont want to be bothered by that family. They didnt talk to Walt for over a year because he stood up for me ..then we sold our home and he went to give them some money . I know that his mom is getting along in years but she has done too many hurtful things to me with his sister. Ever since Walts dad died they have become ole biddys starting trouble whenever they can. I started crying on the way home from Wally's soccer practice. I realized how hurt I have been but most of all how I just feel he doesnt realize how hurt I've been with all the hurtful things this family has done. When I came home I was still in a state so I went to talk to him about it. All I wanted was for him to acknowlegde me and all he kept on saying was " I wont have them call here anymore". Yes men are way different when it comes to places in the heart. It does affect our marriage but there are two people here and if one part is broke then thats what it is. I was good I didnt get upset or yell or raise my voice. I just told him " would you accept the stuff if my family did what your family did to me?" " If you can, then by all means I am wrong and I left it at that. There is nothing he can do to fix it because they have always tried to involve themselves in our lives. I want him to realize I am his family and no one should have to endure the crap that is feed to me from them. I never asked him to make a choice but I am sure they will put that crap in his head. Anyhow other than that we both are feeling lousy due to being sick and all. It was really windy here and a little colder than usual. I guess winter is upon us ...yes even in Hawaii.